First, get some therapy.
Second, admit you are a poor judge of men you date. I'd bet money that when men start abusing you, you stay with them. That's your decision, and you reap the consequences. I've seen your story many many times. Why don't you give me a list of things you want in a man? Things that make a relationship work. That will give me some direction to help you.
Out of all the abused women I have met, they share some common traits:
- They are a poor judge of character
- They stay with abusive men, thinking they will change them. You can't change them if they don't take action and don't want to change.
- They believe what men say, and ignore their actions.
Last edited by bulrush; 16-11-11 at 09:17 PM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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