Relationship issues? is this it?

[Togoru]

He says it's not a problem and never would pick it over me. But I really think it could be an addiction though. Idk if it's worse now or I just never noticed til now. He never had saved it on his phone til now though, and that's what made me wonder and uncomfortable. But it's just how he treats me in general I don't appreciate. Not all the time, but he can be a jerk. He does often get defensive or bitter when something bothers me and then he can reflect it back onto me, which isn't right.

[alwaystryin]

Dump him unless you want to sit around and HOPE he'll suddenly mature before your eyes. Not likely. If you tell him you can't deal with it anymore and his behavior is unacceptable? He'll probably come crawling back. Have respect for yourself and let him see that you do. As of now he knows you're a pushover for him and his bullsh*t. It may seem a harsh action, but actions always speak louder...

Okay, now enough about the porn.

[Togoru]

I talked to him more about all this. The last picture was on his phone because she wasn't "completely" naked so he didn't notice when he deleted all the others. Ok, whatever. I don't know if that's true but I don't even care anymore. And I didn't break up with him though. He promised me he wouldn't do that again. But Now I don't exactly totally trust him anymore when it comes to it or much of anything since it already happened 2 other times. Sometimes we will talk about it all and how I want to trust him. He said something recently like "I'm a guy I'll always like to look but I'll just keep it more private then baby". Well great, whatever, I just want to be respected. If he keeps his promise of not "snapping" when I bring stuff up and also about the phone thing and regards to my feelings then I'll be fine. I just have some doubts or trust issues with him now which I don't know if they'll get better. I was already hesitant to give it another shot. But as for anything else, if it happens again then seriously no regrets of dumping.

[Togoru]

LOL well it didn't matter cause for whatever vague irrational reason months later I kept holding on, trying really hard, putting up with bullshit and he DUMPED ME. My gosh that relationship was a disaster.

[VincenzoG91]

I'm sure that he and his phone will be very happy together.