I like this guy. We've been seeing each other for a couple of weeks. He used to text me all day every day and initiate conversation. After we had sex for the first time this stopped. I figured he wasn't that interested in me and was only after sex so I backed off as well.

The issue is that I text him usually when I'm drunk and we'll stay up all night texting back and forth. He acts a bit timid but he'll act really into me if I initiate. I like him a lot. If I were to initiate contact a lot and kind of nudge our "thing" along would that be too aggressive? He seems to just follow my lead with whatever I want to do.

This is new territory for me. I'm used to being the submissive one.

Help?