Hey, I am here as a lover, as a man but most of all as a human.
I started dating this girl, we've been dating for almost 4 months now and we're in love. We have so much in common and its the first time I thought, wow she might be the one. The thing is we have an age difference. I am 22 she's 17 (its legal in canada lol her family approve of me too, but its an important piece of information). So everything was going perfect until she did the one thing I didn't want her to do and told her it would be the worst thing ever to do to me.
Ok before we dated she made out with this guy who's in her circle of friends, a couple of times. After we started dating she told me he tried to kiss her once and she rejected him telling him she had a boyfriend now. I'm a very jealous and possesive guy and that freaking pissed me off but I was like oh whatever. Then one time I went apple picking with her and her friends and she told me the guy would be there. I said it's cool. The same night we all went to my gf place cause her parents werent home so we had a party. She got too drunk, she was trying to kiss her girl friends cause shes bi and she knows I dont care if she does anything with girls. So I go to check up on her in the kitchen and see her try to kiss her friend, and right after turn around a kiss The guy on the lips. Not a french kiss just a kiss. Ok she was way too drunk and didnt know what she was doing but thats the worst thing to do to me.
I got ****ing mad took her aside told her what she just did and she cried A LOT. She said she'd do anything to make it up to me. I told her first I don't want you to ever get drunk without me again (which she did cause she wanted to go to a party that I couldnt go with her) and seconde, that she never speaks to the guy again. She agreed but didnt follow any of the rules cause that guy is friend with all her friends and sometimes he says hi to her and she says she cant be as mean as not answer. And she says that if I cant go to a party with her she'll go anyways cause she wants to live her life.
She loves me I know it and won't go cheat on me but I just don't trust her when shes drunk anymore. And the worst thing is that she's having another party at her place this saturday and the guy will be there!!!!! I told her I didnt want him to be invited to her house again but she said all of her other friends will be pissed at her if she doesnt invite him and what they think is more important than what I think. We had an argument last night about it.
Anyways I could have forgiven her about kissing another guy at my face but the fact that he's still around makes me not be able to forget and pisses me off at the same time. As I am writing this all im thinking about is either break up with her or tell her if she ever speaks to him again even a hello or invite him at her house Ill break up with her. I havent been the perfect boyfriend, Ive hurted her feelings in the past by saying stupid things but never kissed another girl at her face.
So what should I do knowing that I tried to forget but just CANT.
We love eachother so much tho... I would really regret it if I break up with her for that...