
Originally Posted by
inkeepingsecret
Where do I start?
I dont really want to post this, its a major blow to my ego, but whatever.
First off, I've been seeing this girl for about 6 weeks. About three weeks in , we got really drunk and had sex. She had some regrets, but then everything was cool. I think communication with sex is a big deal. So, i ask her what she likes and so forth. She begins to tell me that she has NEVER orgasmed. This complelty threw me off, because she was in one or two long term relationships.
Initially, i thought this would be cool to be the guy who gave her, her first one. So i question her about the old b/f, and if foreplay was used. She says barely, and tells me that they were selfish. So i do my thing with my finger for awile(30 mins to an hour). SHe likes it buts doesnt "get over the hump." I repeat this everytime we have sex, nothing. I have tried MULTIPLE postions, nothing. I can last a long time, so thats not an issue.
This is really bothering me, because half the fun is making them get off. Now, I'm starting to be hesitant towards having sex, knowing that i may not be able to get her off. I dont know what else to do. I tell her to tell me what she likes and what not, but still no result.
BACKROUND - One ex, and my only other sex partner. With my ex, she would have multiple orgasms almost everytime. Crying was a common reaction on her end. Everytime we tried a new position it was like night and day. The sex was great.
What should i do?