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    why isnt he texting me??? :(

    heres this guy at the supermarket that ive been eyeing and i found out his name thru a mutual friend of ours and since then we have been talking on fb and stuff. i remember he added me on fb and then asked for my number so we can txt there instead of use fb all the time. i also noticed on fb that on that week a few days before we were talking to one another, he changed his status to in a rel.

    i didnt let that get over my head bcuz i was still interested in being friends with him so weve always talked and stuff but as time went on we started flirting and stuff. at first i thought he really was going out with this person but later on i felt like maybe they are just a fling . his friend wrote on his fb saying hes sprung and he wrote back "dont b a hater cuz im gettin sum" and that was back when i was like eh about it and before the flirting between us.

    i asked him about it the other day and i said that boys are all the same because i really felt that he was playing around and he got mad saying that i was judging him and i never replied back and later that night he apologized for getting mad and i just said im going to bed. hes stated that he knows how the break up will end with him... i neevr asked about what that meant even tho i was curious but yeah. the next morning he sent me a good morning text.

    we always talk about cuddling, keeping eachother warm when we r cold and just innocent little stuff like that. the last txt i sent him was today at 2 or so but he still hasnt responded. i noticed he got on fb at work a couple hrs ago but didnt answer my txt. i thnk hes working until 8 or 11. idk. but thepast couple of times when he hadnt replied back on time he said that he thought he sent it but didnt so wrote it again.

    anyway what do u guys think? i dont wanna think im being played i mean im not ina rel with this guy just flirting. but i wonder if he likes me why wont he dump her or whatever and jus come to me or whats stopping him. i dont wanna b the one who has to wait for him i hate that feeling and i dont want him to think im waiting for him either but what do u guys think.

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    Are you very young? I ask because you're naive and you're not picking up on the fact that this guy has a girlfriend and he's playing you.

    Quit talking to him so you can get over your crush. How would you feel if he did leave her and came to you, would you trust him to go on the computer again? How would you feel if he was flirting with other girls and talking about cuddling with her and she was trying to "win" him away from you?
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    yea yea get over it girl. they arent serious. its a fling. anyway someone whos not all butthurt over this pls reply! thanks!

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    It doesn't really matter if they're serious or not if he's got you all confused and he's not coming over to you, and you're confused about it so much that you have to start a thread asking "why won't he just come to me, then he's not crushing on you like you're crushing on him.

    You're No.2. and he's playing you.
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    shut up bitch

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    No need to get ghetto. You asked for opinions and that's mine.
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    cantinto peraja mirae wonjao

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    Quote Originally Posted by angeli.lopez View Post
    shut up bitch
    you have some serious problems... you were just told the truth and are too immature or stuck up to handle it. he is playing you and from what i can tell from how your acting right now you totally deserve it..

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