She then found out shes pregnant and that the contraceptive pill hadnt worked .
...the relationship was near its last days and secondly because im too young and not ready for it. However because the woman always gets to decide she decided to keep it.
She probably "forgot" to take her pill, because she knew the relationship was ending. It was a last ditch attempt to keep you. She sounds really unstable by looking at the rest of your post.
She was truly devastated when she found out id found a new girlfriend and had barely stopped crying. She told me that she cant believe iv done it to her and the baby before its even born.
Notice how she mentioned the baby as an emotional appeal? And she "said" she cried nonstop. We don't know if it's true or not, but this is another sign of her instability. If she really cried "nonstop" it's a really bad sign, possibly a mental ilness. Don't you see how she overreacts to things? If she lied about it, then she's a liar. Either way, she is bad news.
You need to pay your child support and otherwise stay away from her, except to see your kid.
AND GET A PATERNITY TEST! It may not even be yours. Don't trust her.
Vasectomy: $700usd (if not covered by insurance)
Child support in MI for 18 years: $302,400 ($1400 per month for first child)
Which is cheaper?
a girl who says she is not allowing the father to see his own child is very capable of pulling a pregnancy scheme in hopes of keeping a man. She seems white trash to me in that sense.
I agree. I've met these types of people in person and gotten to know them. They are really out there. This is not something I read about. I've met them and grew up with them.
Yep, because every time a woman gets pregnant, it's to manipulate men into staying with them or to milk the man for child support. Not always, of course, but it's just best to assume this, because whores, amiright, bcgirl?
Nope. Only sometimes. With highly insecure, unstable girls, like how this one sounds, it's very likely. I've met these girls, grown up with them. They can be desperatre, insecure, and HIGHLY reactive and emotional.
Last edited by bulrush; 11-12-11 at 04:04 AM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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