Long distance relationship issue

[Laurici]

I have been with my bf for one year and a half in a long distance relationship. We meet once a month, he doesn't want to meet more often..we had some discussions but finally I said ok,
At the beginning of our relationship we talked for hours on the phone, on ym, skype, you name it.
Then the one hour phone calls turned into 15 minutes, then he started to call me only when he was on the road going somewhere. Like buying bread or visiting a friend, he called me because he hates walking alone on the street.
He lives alone, no doubt about why he ain't calling me from his house, I just get the feeling that he just uses me for the time to pass quicker when he's walking. Anyway, I didnt say anything.
But lately, it's like 1 minute phone calls. Today he called me, he asked me how I was and I didnt even got the chance to open my mouth that he said ok, Im meeting my friend, got to go.
So I finally got really mad, sent him some messages saying that he's been neglecting and ignoring me, that I want him to make time for me more. i dont want 2 hour conversations, but I want to feel like I have a boyfriend and to have a chance to talk to him more than 1 minute/ conversation. He got really mad, saying that I am desperate and clingy and that he's busy and that I need to get a life.
Bit fyi, he has no job. So he's just busy with his friends.
He met some guys 2 weeks ago,he smokes pot and drinks with them from 6 pm till 2 am. If I call him in that time frame, he's on drugs and laughs with them and I cant have a proper conversation with him. And before 6pm he calls for one minute and says ok, talk to you later. But later he'll be stoned and he'll be with his guys! He will get a job in February and says he wants to have fun till then.
Anyway, I dont know what to do. i explained to him that we're in a long distance relationship and if we dont talk, we dont have anything, but he just wouldnt listen and says Im desperate and that he'll call me when he wants for how many minutes he wants.
Am I too clingy? If he would give me at least 10 minutes a day to talk in peace, I would be happy. I am not asking for much, I tried to talk to him but he didnt change his behavior. What do you think I should do?
Thanks!

[bulrush]

You can't change him. So decide if you want to put up with his crap, or find someone better. There really are better guys out there, you know.

[bcgirl]

and why the hell would you want to be with a loser like that? he probably has a girlfriend and talks to you when the girlfriend is in the bathroom or when he is apart from her.