How much do I text her over XMAS?

[bob1234592]

Hello LoveForum members,

I broke up with my Ex three months ago, ever since we've lived together and still share the odd weak moment with each other, I know she loves me still and I love her more than anything in the world.

The problem is, the way we got together was through my friend who at the time was in a 3 year relationship with her....Everything was fine for 10 months then they started to talk again, which I didnt mind, then they started spending more and more time together.

I got to a point where I'd lost her completely but yesterday she broke down in front of me and one thing led to another...she ended up telling me she still loved me shes just confused.

Christmas will be the first time we've spent more than 4 days apart, I'm hoping it'll make her miss me (it'll kill me missing her), but how much should I be texting her?

I need her to know what were still not normal because shes still in a love-friend relationship with her Ex, but at the same time I dont want to push her away by not texting her, any ideas?

for example apart from good morning and good night should I not be making an effort to txt her?
Should I just reply when she send me a text?

We usually text each other about 30 times a day if not more when we're apart (even now that weve broken up).
Thanks.

[Mathias]

We usually text each other about 30 times a day if not more when we're apart (even now that weve broken up).

Oh dear God.

[lexilovestoread]

hi, i think you should give her time to realize her feelings for you and for her ex. And as for sending her a text message this Christmas then go ahead. Send her a Christmas greeting wishing her more love, happiness and peace this season. And when she's ready to talk to you then tell her how you feel and what you want so you know where you stand.

[Boisdevie]

I think you need to get a grip on reality.
She loves you.
You love her.
You broke up. People who love each other do not break up.