Need help, what should i do? please help me

[alfonso39512]

2 months ago, my cousin introduced me to her bestfriend, we all (my cousin, her best friend, my brothers, and i) hung out for like 3 hours, then i went home.. that night i had a dream about her, i didnt think much about it, until i couldnt stop thinking about her the next day, and had another dream about her the next night, well this went on for about 3 days, i had her on my mind all day and night. well we started talking on facebook, since i would only be able to see her once a week, and well i was dissapointed, because it seemed she wasnt interested in even talking to me, later on that day i found out thats just how she talks to everyone on there (she's really boring on facebook.) well we continued talking for a while, and i decided i would tell my cousin, how i felt about her friend, hoping her friend had said something about me. well my cousin was just like oh ok thats cool. so i was kind of lost. well after some time i eventually told her how i felt, and how i couldnt stop thinking about her. she said "oh well your really cool, handsome, and funny... maybe something will happen" a few days later i asked her what she was doing and she said thinking how we would look in a relationship, i think its cute. (shes short and small and im tall and big) then she asked me if that weekend i wanted to go watch a movie with her and my cousin, i asked her who else was going, and she said no one else. that weekend i left to the movies, got there being all happy, and dressed up and everything, and i found out her cousins and some of their friends were going to. well i just left it alone, and forgot about it. after that we got into a small argument and we stopped talking for about 2 weeks. we started talking again about a week ago....

now that you know the basics help me... i dont know what to do, i still like her, i dont know if she likes me, another thing is when we talk on facebook shes really boring and she doesnt really express herself, she acts like she doesnt care about anything. Also shes 4 years younger than me, the same age as my little brother. and my cousin told us, that her friend thought my brother was really cute, i asked her and she denied it that she barely knows him, they only talked like once. I didnt know what to do so i told my brother to talk to her, to get with her, he knows i "liked" her so he didnt want to but i convinced him that i "dont" like her anymore, so he tried talking to her but she got all red and she just left.... i dont know what to do, i stopped talking to her because well im confused. should i chase her? should i give up? am i doing the right thing? help me please!!

I really appreciate it if you read everything, it means the world to me.

[smackie9]

She sound more boy crazy rather than looking for a BF. You could just ask her out on an official date and see where that takes you. If she starts giving you excuses then drop it.


To me she's mackin on your little bro.

[bulrush]

If you don't know if she likes you, ask her out. If she goes out with you, maybe she likes you. Or maybe she wants to use you to get to know your brother more.