Hi, I just wanted to get this out and make sure I was right in my reaction. My ex and I dated for 3 years and then broke up. She was seeing someone in the 4 months that we've been apart, but has regularly made mention of us working things out. Sure, I can't be mad about her seeing someone in the interim. But I have told her that we can not work things out as long as she continues to see him or spend time with him. She mentioned that they are no longer seeing each other. Yesterday she told me that she wanted things to work out between us and that she would like for us to work on our communication, which was pretty bad. After she told me this she mentioned that she was going out with friends but did not mention that he would be there. I told her that there is no way this can work out if she continues to spend any time with him. She knows it bothers me, but somehow doesn't get it that it does. I feel that she is disregarding my feelings for her own benefit and because she's just having too much fun and that she just doesn't want to face the issues we have, like trust. It's like she's hedging her bets. She has mentioned that she knows she has to make a choice but has flip-flopped on it for almost 3 months. I feel that how can you build trust and work things out if you are still spending time with someone else. If he were just a friend obviously it would be different. But she has mentioned that she has feelings for him and that she thinks she's falling in love with him. Which obviously means she has no idea what she's doing. Am I wrong in being angry that this has continued?