feeling overwhelmed during sex. what can i do?

[JackieR]

so last year me and my boyfriend went through a lot of emotional stuff because i was depressed. i got on medication (started in november) and we are going to therapy cause we want to be with each other. recently in the past few months i have started to feel a feeling of over emotion when we have sex. it starts right away and i cant describe how it feels. its just over emotion like a flood of feelings. i know its sad feelings and sometimes i want to burst into tears. feeling this way has made me not want to have sex. im almost afraid of the act cause it doesnt feel good. it makes me very depressed. im so scared that this is gonna make me lose a major connection with him and ultimately ruin our relationship. he knows everything thats been going on and we have an appointment with my therapist. has anyone been through this? or has heard of it? i would really like some comfort and for someone to tell me its curable and we can make everything work. please give me your opinion and advice. i really need it.

[HeartIsAching]

Wow. What a horrible thing to live with.

I've got nothing to give you, sorry.

[sadie_genie]

You should continue to work this out in therapy with him. If he truly cares about you, he would understand. A relationship is not all about sex and you don't need to give him sex to maintain a connection.