Hey guys just a little issue here.
For the members that know about my relationship in previous threads and for those who don't, I've been with my current girlfriend coming up 3 years and we are currently LD atm.
She is moving back in a few weeks and a guy she knows and almost dated back in highschool has been txting and ringing her for roughly 6 months saying when are they going to catch up and he misses them hanging out and she was so special to him etc.
Now i've been friends with her for 6 years and remember this guy, he's 23 and I'm 20 and we don't get along, for various reasons. Anywho he rang her recently when I was visiting her and said I can't wait to see you blah blahh, we have so much to catch up on and I miss what we could have had, meanwhile I was sitting right next to her and heard everything.
I told her I wasn't happy about everything he just said and them catching up and she just hopped up, walked away and said I don't want to talk about it, so I shrugged it off.
But today she rang me and said he rang her again and said the same thing and apparently her sister invited him to stay with them when she finally moves back. I again said hang on I don't feel comfortable with a guy you had a thing with and who still has feelings with you staying a few nights in your room.
This time she went crazy at me saying I don't trust her and that I'm making something out of nothing, I told her it wasn't that I didn't trust her but that I don't trust him, we don't like each other and he clearly doesn't give a rahzoo about our relationship and wouldn't mind trying to pull something funny while staying with her those few nights.
Well what I want to know is, am I being unreasonable? Or do I have a right to feel this way? I can't help but feel it's inconciderate on her behalf to not listen to how I feel about this situation.
But I must remind you I really don't like this guy and if I wasn't 5' 8" and he wasn't 6' 2" and had a brother built like Jay Cutler, I would definately have a go.