Hi, this is my first post so I thank anyone in advance for any replies i may receive on this.
I am 28 and am in a relationship with a woman I feel I love. We have been dating for a just over a yr but have been officially in a relationship for about 4 months now. Anyway last tuesday she brought to my attention that she and some friends would be going out for dinner with a very close friend of hers that she has not seen in three yrs. this close friend is female and from what my gf says is her best friend. The back story on this best friend is that they all used to live out west after collage with some of the friends coming out for this dinner. The exception to this is that my girlfriends ex bf, whom she to this day still remains close friends with. Another male friend will be attending this dinner that lived out west with them, except they invited his current girlfriend to this dinner to meet this long time friend they have not seen in yrs.
Going back to Tuesday night when my gf says they will going out for dinner she informs me that the five of them will be going out to dinner and how cool it's gonna be for, not her ex bf but the other male friends girl friend get to finally meet this person. Then my girl friend says to me "I would like you to meet her to. So if there is enough time come by after work and meet her before we go to dinner" at this point I am wondering why I am no invited to this dinner. I mean I am your boyfriend and this supposed to be our best friend.
Now to top it all off there is a picture of my girl and her ex still in her room. I close picture from a wedding they attended together. Now i never said anything about it because I figured she would be smart enough to get rid of it. Especially since she tells me she loves me everyday. I've been looking at this picture daily for over 4 months. Not getting invited to this dinner made me question how she feels about this ex bf.
I told her the next day thaty feeling were hurt and that I didn't need to meet her friend. I was insulted that you invited me for a quick visit before you go to dinner with your ex. She said she never thought of it like that and I replied I've been looking at that picture of you and your ex for awhile now and the truth is because it's still there I don't really like the fact that you guys are still friends and that I wasn't invited to this dinner makes me feel like your hiding something. She played it off like she was lnt aware I may be feeling insecure but I replied you'd have to be stupid not to think I am concerned due tonthe picture still I'm the room. Ps this picture is on the end table Beside where I wake up. She replied with wow and I haven't talked her in the last 24 hrs.



