I have a friend that I recently met. She has a boyfriend already that she describes as lackluster, and he's also not very thoughtful or interesting I guess. I don't really know. She self-admittedly is the type of person that will pretty much ride out relationships, even if she's not all that happy with them. I really like her a lot. We have very similar personalities, very similar sense of humors, similar level of intelligence, are attracted to each other, etc.
My thought though is that we aren't compatible in other aspects: amount we work, activities, dietary habits (she is Vegan, I love meat), wanting kids, the fact that she would be talking to another guy on the side instead of breaking it off with her boyfriend. Regardless, I really enjoy spending time with her, talking with her, cuddling, and everything but physical stuff that I would consider making her cheat and don't want the bad karma associated with that.
My question is, is a romantic friendship like that a good idea? I want us to be friends no matter what, because I like her a lot, and we get along really well, but I don't want to date because it would likely fall apart and ruin the friendship. How long do you think a romantic friendship like that would last? At what point do I have to make it non-romantic? I'm recently coming out of a divorce, and this open ended relationship stuff is new to me.