My ex girlfriend has mental issues

[lna]

So here's the situation, my girlfriend went insane when she found out this new girl was interested in me and i had plans to go out with her. She had a crazy jealous reaction, she bursted into tears and she told me she doesn't want to see me again. The day after she texts me and she says she wants to see me cause she can't live without me. We had sex the same night. She said that she felt as i was still hers when i wasn't hearing from any other girl sides her but now is different. She asked me if i leave her to get back with her if she leaves her actual boyfriend. Now she constantly wants to see me, she texts me all the time and asks about this mistery girl i'm seeing. She doesn't know what to do but she's in a relationship herself... I don't get it. You want to get back with me? Leave the ******* rebound guy and get back with me. We both love each other ans we can't go on without each other.. The thing is she's too sure about me so she doesn't break her actual relatioship.. she feels no pressure. My question is.. should i keep her updated if she asks about what is going on with me and this other girl or should i tell her that it's not her business? So far i've been answering to every question she asked me, but this seems to be accomodating her cause i don't hurt her... Last night she asked and i told her i was out with her and she asked me not to kiss her, i answered "why shouldn't i" and she immediately wanted to come talk to me.. Can she be anymore possessive? I don't know what to do..

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Tell her not to speak to you anymore unless she wants to get back together. Every time she contacts you, ask immediately if she wants to get back together. If she says no, hang up on her. Be mean to her and let her go crazy in her own head.

[lna]

Tell her not to speak to you anymore unless she wants to get back together. Every time she contacts you, ask immediately if she wants to get back together. If she says no, hang up on her. Be mean to her and let her go crazy in her own head.

That's what I was thinking... She freaked out in less than 24 hrs without me. It should be me to the fullest or not bullshitfest... This situation seems to comfy for her.

[dj454]

Just from what I'm reading you both have issues. If you really want to be together then you will find a way. Sometimes women and men too get jealous when somebody they used to date is with someone else but they really don't want them they just don't want anybody else to have them. If you 2 truly want to be together then do it. But do yourself a favor and really think it through first and make sure she feels the same way.

[lna]

Just from what I'm reading you both have issues. If you really want to be together then you will find a way. Sometimes women and men too get jealous when somebody they used to date is with someone else but they really don't want them they just don't want anybody else to have them. If you 2 truly want to be together then do it. But do yourself a favor and really think it through first and make sure she feels the same way.

I told her.. If your feelings about this kid are more important (that's what you've been showing me so far) then why the hell should i care. She cries everyday cause she misses me but she doesn't do anything about it.. She'll regret it when it's too late. And by the way.. she keeps mentioning "when we get back together".

[miffy]

People want most what they can't have. If she really wants you back, she'll want you back after you break off contact and when she's broken it off with her current BF. You're both being unfair to each other and to your respective interests. Get some closure and distance, or break it off with the significant others and try to make it work. This isn't getting you anywhere but confusion right now.

If I were in your shoes, I'd do as BackUp suggested. Ask her flat-out if she wants to give it another try right now and whether she's sure of it. If she doesn't, back off and get some distance between you or you both won't be able to move on with your lives.

[vashti]

If you really believe she has mental health issues, I advise you to let her go. Immediately. Before she sucks the life out of you.

[Lunaa]

Im sorry but it is not all fer fault. You had sex with her when she was crying her eyes out to you, you took advantage of the situation in a way, and also you knew she has a boyfriend and that didn't stop you either from having sex with her, of course she's confused. And no, you shouldn't keep her updated, the only thing thing that will do is hurt her even more in the long run, stop contacting her, if she calls you, don't pick up, if she texts you, don't reply.