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Thread: Does she still love me? I'm not sure what I should do.

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    Does she still love me? I'm not sure what I should do.

    I am very introvert. She is very extrovert. So was very long time (1 year) before I started speaking regularly to this girl even though she studied in same class. I started liking her and also became good friends with her. But I was afraid to tell her this because I knew lots of guys proposed her and she just rejected them without a 2nd thought. But one day, unexpectedly I just blurted it out in front of her that I liked her very much and she said that it was same with her. But we hardly met after that as school life ended and we had a long holiday, but we kept in touch through phone. It seemed alright. But when our college (we studied in different college, but in same city) started, she started behaving strangely and started ignoring me after few days. After hanging on for nearly two months like that, I said that I could not continue and broke up with her. Even she suggested that we should remain just friends. I didn't want us to be just friends, but I still loved her, so I agreed to that. Then slowly our communication barrier broke and we started talking regularly again. I got hopes that I might be able to revive our old relationship again. But when I asked her to be in a relationship, she said that she doesn't want to be in any kind of relationship. We're still good and extremely close friends and go out often on weekends though we can't meet during weekdays (because we are in different colleges). But I don't understand why she doesn't want to be in a relationship. I tried to convince her on more than one occasion, but I get the same reply everytime. Sometimes I get fed up and think of ignoring her texts and calls. I never could do that properly since she starts trying to contact so frequently that I can't just hold myself up and not contact her back for more than one day. I'm not sure what I should do next. I will be glad if anyone could help me.

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    She wants you as a friend, but you are not relationship material to her.
    Usually after the first break-up, things can never be the same.
    If there is more than one break-up, it indicates drama addiction.
    Sorry, keep looking. Don't be a stalker. Introverts have problems with this.

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    one word... friendzoned.

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    Thanks for the advice.. I'll try to follow it..

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