Should i end my relationship

[cueball7978]

I have been with my fiancee since 3-17-11 and have been living with her for 7 months and i feel like i'm being controlled and not respected. She calls me gullible, naive, and uneducated. She also thinks she is always right, and not in the typical way most guys talk about. If we are shopping grocery or other wise she wants me to stay right with her while she takes her time. How ever she shows no kind of care or interest for my interests. I have tried ending it twice and can't stand people crying it makes me feel awful. Should I tell her we are done, because I don't like being talked down to. Please help.

[VincenzoG91]

Her contempt for you is going to destroy this relationship, one way or another. Can you talk to her about your concerns? If not, lack of communication is another sign this will end badly. Try to talk this out with her, and if that doesn't work, end the relationship as soon as possible, preferably before marriage and children complicate everything.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Dump her, and walk away. If she cries, she cries. She won't die from it.

If you don't think you can dump her, just tell her that you cheated on her 3 or 4 times because of her attitude, and let her break up with you.

[miffy]

Don't just end it because some people advise you to based on 5 lines of text in a forum. It sounds like you have a legitimate beef with her and it is threatening your relationship. It also sounds like you have not properly voiced your concerns or talked with her about it. As Vincenzo said, lack of communication is the death of most relationships. If you go into a marriage like this you will both regret it. Talk to her, make her see your point, and voice your concerns about it. You're obviously not happy right now, so something needs to change - either you work on it, or you end it. Just give it a chance to breathe and try to communicate before breaking it off out of hand.