Ex girlfriend asked "where were you last night?"

[mateo]

My ex-girlfriend and I have been talking a bit lately. Just a couple of emails and stuff. Suddenly she is asking where I was? with who? how can I forget here so soon? She is even asking for names.

She was always the controlling self-destructive person, I am afraid she wants that info to keep hurting herself, and me in the process. On the other hand I dont know if I should just say I was with someone else, end of story. Any advice?

[pisces25]

You just say it is no longer any of your business who I was with. And might be an idea to cut contact for a while so she can't torture herself.