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Thread: Confused by a new boy!

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    Confused by a new boy!

    Long story short, I met this guy 2 weeks back on a saturday night party with friends. We had a good time together and ended up staying out till 6 am. When it was time to go home he decided to drop me home despite my protests. By the time we reached my place it was 7 am and we were both very drunk. So, I offered to let him crash on the couch and he agreed. We spoke for a while, shared pictures and then finally fell asleep on my bed in the middle of our conversation. He woke up before me and after bidding me goodbye told me he wanted to go home. Since then we have been texting every alternate day, exchanging 4-5 texts each time, most of the conversation being about how silly we acted that night.

    The next friday afternoon, he texted me asking if I was free in the evening. I was, and so we decided to meet up. We went for a long walk in the park and then dinner. After dinner, we ended up drinking again. So at about 10 pm we decided to go to my place and watch a movie with beer. Despite, the movie running in the background we just ended up talking most of the time and barely paid any attention to the movie. Finally, we fell asleep at about 4 am again mid conversation. When we woke up, we laughed about how we silly we had again been and he hugged me kissing my forehead, eyes and cheeks. We lay in bed hugging and talking for an hour or so. Then we ended up going out for lunch, meeting some common friends and hung out till about 8 pm with everyone else.(basically we spent about 24 hours with each other) Then, he said he was tired and decide to go home. He texted me goodnight later to which I responded. This was on saturday night, and it is now monday morning and I have not yet heard from him. I think i have started liking this guy, but i am not sure how he feels. From friday's and saturday's incidents i felt like he liked me, but in that case why hasn't he texted yet? I don't know what to do. Help!

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    I think he wants confirmation that you like him. You didn't do anything (in your post) that indicated you liked him more than a friend. So you need to take that next step, and tell him you want to be more than friends. If you don't you will lose him for sure. If you are shy, send him a text or email that says you want to be more than friends. Otherwise he will just move on.
    I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
    (Please note, we give the best advice we can based on the information given in a post. For better advice, please include the age of all romantic partners.)

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