Originally Posted by
vashti
Don't be the silly girl who imagines she is "special". You only dated him for two months; pretty girls are subjected to abuse, too.
Originally Posted by
Boisdevie
NO NO NO. That is really stupid advice. Tell the guy to get stuffed.
All this^. And, I will argue based on your post that he *wasn't* treating you different, if by different you mean respectfully. Think about it: he *told you* he was using this other girl for sex. Don't you see how disrespectful that is? It tells you how he views women, and that he thinks its okay to share his poor view of women with YOU. A gentleman *never tells* and the first rule of dating someone is to see how they treat their exes. This guy has done you a favour telling you so clearly what a jerk he is.
Now, some advice for you: stop thinking that being attractive means you should some how be treated differently. In fact, what is most likely to happen with jerks is that they will use lies and flattery to *make you believe you are 'different'*. You fell for this hook, line and sinker. You may be pretty but you aren't acting very smart. Use your brains next time and ask yourself "why is this guy telling me this", instead of letting him falsely boost your self-esteem at the expense of some other woman you don't even know.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh