What should i do? I need some serious advice!

[KendrickL]

Hi, me and my girlfriend are together for almost 6 months now and we are very much in love with eachother. I am 20 years old and im willing to become a muslim, she is 18 years old and she is muslim. Our relationship is a bit of a secret and her parents can not know. Her father is dutch and her mother is from tunis(?). Now the big problem is that her brother (who is 28) doesn't approve her having a relationship. She always has to make things up for her to come see me. We can't really walk around the city because people might see us (A few friends of mine and of her know about us). Thats why we have to go to other citys to do stuff or just stay at my place. She told me she wants to be with me forever and i do too! Now she wants to leave her house for some time and come over to my place, because she's fed up with her brother trying to control her life. I tried talking it out of her head but she started crying and told me she HAS to leave. She asked me if she could stay at my place for a while which is fine by me, but i might be a bit scared of her brother finding out where she is. I know for sure that if he finds out, i will get my butt kicked in a very bad way. I'm ready to take the risk but i'm just wondering if there is any other way to solve this problem other than breaking up (Which i'll refuse to do.) What should i do? Should i take her in and get an innevitable pounding later on or should i keep telling her to stay at home and sweat it out? Greetings Kendrick.

[Boisdevie]

This relationship will end in pain until she stands up to her brother and her family and tells them that her life is none of their business. Given cultural differences it's very unlikely she will do this.
I would end this relationship now.