I started a relationship with a girl (37) at the start of January - we had been friends for some months before, as we are close neighbours. Straight away things went well and in time we talked about how suitable we are and how long she has waited to meet the right person (15years…) She had not had a relationship for that time.. All our talk was how we would take it slowly but we knew we had a long, exciting future together. In Feb we arranged a short holiday together for April, both said how nervous we were but it felt right to do. Leading up to the holiday things seemed fine and getting even better between us. By the time the holiday came round (mid April) we had been intimate together just three times, but had not slept overnight at each other’s houses. We were going away for three nights but had both booked the week off and said how great it would be to spend more time together. When the holiday came I sensed something was not right and she was very distant. In the end we came home early as she said she was homesick. For the rest of the week she hardly spoke to me, avoided me and it was only when I asked her three times if everything was OK that she said we can’t be together, she said I'd done nothing wrong and it was probably her. I'm so confused as we really had verbally committed ourselves to each other up until the week off and then it all changed. She is an independent girl, quite reserved and likes to be on her own. She walks twice a day on her own for at least two hours and wondered if this has something to do with it - as though I'd broken her routine. What has made her change her mind? I have asked her why and she said she doesn't know herself because she did want it to work. I did try and ask her but she really didn’t want to talk any further.