Bromance - Ruining Marriage?

[Mr Average]

Hey guys,

I'm a happily married man, or at least I thought I was until about a month ago. I've been spending more and more time with my best buddy, a dude who is also married. I find myself thinking about spending more and more time with him than I do my wife. The wives have noticed this but they just think its 'cute that we get along so well.

I'm straight, and Ive never fancied a guy before, I don't fancy him in a sexual way but I do admire him. I'm just abit weird'd out by how I'm feeling at the moment.

Any thoughts, or similar experiences?

Jim

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Sounds like you are fancying him in a sexual way. Why else would you think it is ruining your marriage, if no one else does?

[Jason278]

Thanks for your post