I loved a woman, and she loved me but only after 3-4 years we grew apart and separated. Now shes married has one child, but I still feel so passionate about her and even feel the same love we once shared. What should I do? I know letting go has always been the option told to me...but I can't do it. She's there when I lay down to sleep in my dreams, and when I wake up. I'm hopelessly lost...My emotions tell me to message her right away let her know that I still care and love her but how can I do this when she has a new life of her own. If anyone has any advice it would be greatly apperciated.

Sincerely,
Lost and confused guy