Break uo reason Facebook

[serCay]

Hi guys.. This is my first post

I'm going through sort of a rough time

Recently I've been through a break up that was caused by the fact that our relationship sort of died because of Facebook. Let me explain:

After dating for almost 2 year I asked my boyfriend to be friends on facebook and to put the n a relationshio with' status. He just said no.

His reasons:
- He doesnt want to do whatI tell him to
- He likes his privacy
- He doesnt want me to receive messages from girls from his past

I started getting detached from him more and more because I just lost my trust..

Soms background info on our relationship:'

-We were having plans for a future together
- I knew his parents and best friends
- I once caught him having phone activity with 3 girls in 1 night, when I needed his phone to call somewhere, I saw it once because I never needed his phone or snooped around in it otherwise. I didnt have his codes anyways. He told me these girls kept calling him because they are from his past and he needs mew number, then I can freely use his phone.
- He didn't get a new number and when his contract ended he just walked around phoneless for a while
- Now he has a phone but is always keeping it in his pocket
- Once we had a big fight because he told me he didnt tell his ex yet that we had a relationship to not hurt her feelings..
- He has a very high msn messenger and whatsapp and ping activity with I have no clue who with
-Other than the above mentioned all was going perfectly well, we were together like 5 days a week

I need some honest opinions on this.. Because on the one side he tells me he's doing nothing wrong, why am I making a big deal out of Facebook, on the other hand 90% of his friendlist are females who I have never heard about as being a good friends or have never met. He has his real name on there, has over 100 friends, his high schools and all are on it.. so not as if he is so private that theres nothing about him


Thanks for your honestyyy

[surfhb]

Blah Blah Blah.......

I wouldnt want my GF on facebook either which is why I deleted my account some time ago. You dont trust him because of your insecurities.

[cara123]

Honestly, I would read some of his conversations and see what he's talking about. I know people will say privacy blablabla, but if you're having misgivings it's for a reason. If you don't find anything, problem solved and you won't need to look again. If you do find something, better to know and deal with it now rather than waste any more of your life with the wrong person.

[searock]

I think he wants to hide stuff from you, otherwise he wouldn't have made such a big deal out of your request to friend him on facebook. Also why would he conceal his cell phone? He was hiding something. Did you break up with him or did he break up with you? If it's the former, how did he react? If it's the latter, then you know he didn't really care about you.

[Jason521]

Thanks for your post