Hello,
So I'm here for an outsider's unbiased opinion because my friends are not helping me. First you should know that I'm a 27 year old female and my clock is ticking. I was in a relationship with a beautiful, amazing woman for the last 5 years... We had a great relationship however, in the end I felt stuck because she Courtney (name changed) was not ready to move any future in the relationship because she was not sure if she wanted to be with a woman for the rest of her life. However, I made it clear that she was he only one for me and I wanted to marry her. For a portion of those 5 years I was just waiting on her to figure out what she wanted to do. We decided to date other people until we (she) figured out what she wanted. It took about a year before I finally found anyone worth dating, and he is awesome... Shawn and I have been dating for just 4 months and I really like him. He treats me like a queen and is genuinely proud to be in a relationship with me. He makes me feel wanted and special, not as if I was on Courtney's layaway plan. My main issue with shawn is that he has Children, 3 children (ages 2, 5, & 7) .... Only one of which he has joint coustody. This is a problem because I don't have any children... I planned on doing things the "right way"/a more traditional way, however, I am accepting of his children. Now my delima is Courtney now wants to express how much she loves me and that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. This is what I wanted but I don't want give into her nor do I want to give up this new relationship that I'm enjoying. I'm afraid that I may be missing out on my opportunity to be with the girl of my dreams. What's a girl to do?