Ok so iv never really posted on this before I'm just at the point where I just don't know what to do, iv had female friends give me The same advice a few times but most don't really get it and I haven't really told them everything.. I just need advice , from someone, anyone.
I am 21 years old. My whole teenage life was filled with depression, one admission to a psyc ward, no father around, my mum was an alcoholic when I was in primary school.. I have been addicted to smoking marijuana since I was 16. I have had relationships with males and females, I have always been very scared of being left by people and I'm not sure why.
I met my current boyfriend about 19 months ago, at the same I was going thru a small stage of doing speed and I had just got my license. When I met him, it was like, we looked onto each others eyes for like 4 hours.. I felt his heart and he could feel mine. I'd never felt anything like that in my life and felt as tho I wanted to Marry him yet all I was doing was looking into his eyes, it was as if he really saw me, it's into my soul. It's sounds completely corny and over the top unless you've experienced it. I thought it might of been drugs, but when I wasn't on it I felt the same. My heart raced looking at him or thinking about him. We both got matching tattoos within about a month or knowing each other. It was young love shit. He lived far away and I used to drive down and visit him.. Everything was great in my eyes.. Then he just stopped calling me, everything just went insanely ****ed up, I didn't know wtf was going on n I found out he had another girl staying with him, but will still saying he loved me. It broke my heart, I was In such a bad place, I just felt so stupid. Like how wrong I could be. N then I was weak and went back to him, we moved in together 6 months later. 2 months later I had a breast reconstruction from having a tumor when I was younger and he cheated on me with another girl from another state and was still msging her until I found out. I left, then, because of the stupid love shit, went back to him, it's like he is too different people. Somedays he loves me and it's all good other days I'm a slut because I used to have male friends, I feel sad and when we fight we just say the most horriblist things, he won't let me talk to any other males in the world, and if I do he just gets so angry and has been physically abusive towards me. It's been 8 months since he cheated on me and I said I'm over it and I do trust him now .. But he just accuses me of having sex with other people behind his back , n that he can't trust me, but he's the one that was unfaithful, we will go days being in love, having sex, talking about our future n our love, n other days we r calling each other cunts and saying that we hate each other... The lease runs out of our house in a month and I just don't know what to do.. He can be the most beautiful person, and then the most evilest. He is addicted to marijuana and smokes everyday, his addicted had caused mine to grow so I smoke just as much as him now.., I need advice from Someone who can relate., I love him, I do. I just wish we could work. I need help. Please respond sorry about the massive essay!!!