Girlfriend Wont open up?

[dustin090]

okay, so I've been dating this girl laura for 4 months and 3 days, Shes always been kinda distant, I know she loves me, And I love her to death, But when It comes to having problems she doesn't want to talk. It obviously upsets her. You see I'm the first "real" relationship shes really had. Her parents are terrible and don't care about her. I guess its hard for her to open up. But Its really bugging me. It has for a while.I tryed everything. Leaving her alone and having patience, to getting aggressive and breaking down in front of her. I have no Idea what to do..Its killing our relationship.

Please help?

[meganx0xf]

support her thell her your there for her to talk if she needs to or even just to get away from things. if somethings bothering her and she wont tell you, bring her for a nice walk somewere, buy a bottle of wine and watch a dvd, go cinema, bring her out for dinner. shell open up when shes ready just support her til then and dont pressure her into talking

[iamaninnocentma]

have you thought about entering a stockcar race with a thousand dollar prize?

[Boisdevie]

Shes always been kinda distant, I know she loves me

Really? When people love each other the last thing they are is distant with each other. I think she just doesn't care.

[HeartIsAching]

Whether or not she loves you is irrelevant. You don't love her. You're attempting to force her to do something she doesn't want to do, because it's something YOU believe she should do. It's not love you're feeling, but a sense of control.

Eventually she'll tire of it and dump you.

[James87]

Thanks for your post