need some advice

[atomicdog722]

all right well here's the situation.... there's this girl i met at the begining of the school year in class and we've become pretty good friends since then. like this isnt jus a crush we pretty much created a friendship and its begining to add some other things on to it (its a mutual thing im not guy who has this jus in his head). Well lately we stopped talking for no reason but we still flirt alot. And while we werent really talkin i started to realize that i like her but im not to sure if she is interested bc we jus quit talkin for like a week or two. But today we hangin out in class and flirt and she started playin around sexually. Like now its been great and i think she's into it but im not sure well anyway I'd some advice on how to deal wit this.

[Steve2004]

uh....er...ask her?

[Mermaid]

I really think you should clear up things with her it seems a little unusual to me you have this problem being a guy its usual that girls are the ones that ask "what are we, lovers, friends bf and gf, friends that make out?"
as nothing clear has been said theres no exclusivity there and that can be bad, if youre really interested in her -as someone pointed before me- go and ask her, if you flirt aroun so much it means she likes you back, perhaps she is waiting for you to make the next move good luck!

[valueprep]

Your interest in her should be on a genuine level first and to obtain a genuine response from her, honesty between both yourself and her must be attained. This honesty can come from an environment other than school, a resteraunt, outside alone, or whatever. So get to that level and then proceed from there. Sex should always be secondary. It is the best relationship advice I can give you since you are in school and not an adult yet.

good luck,
Brian Maloney, site owner of valueprep.com
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