I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. And I have completely fallen deeply in love with him. But during that time I've acted like a complete bitch to me not because he deserved any of it, I just didn't know how to handle my emotions. I regret everything I've done, and I just know people can change since I'm experiencing this myself. And this is my first go at real love, i just didnt know how to minimize my emotions.I have apologized a million times which he does appreciate and I've dropped that bitchy side of me, and now have a more lighter side which he says he loves.
I have been living with him and its been great. Its how a couple should live, no tension, no fighting, just easy go lucky. But because of everything I have done he always seems to be saying two different things, one is more consistent than the other. He will say that he loves me, he wants to be with me, I'm like family to him, I've really become apart of him and them he will say things like he doesn't care, that I'm right he will end up with someone else. And I just don't know what to do, what do I believe? Because of him saying two different things all the time, I need constant reassurance which annoyed him. And I can understand why he gets annoyed because I ask the same questions over and over again. I know me acting this way doesn't help but this is how I feel. Am I wrong? Should I just pretend to be happy and have faith in us?
he says he does eventually want to take a break, just so he can forget about that old me and then start a new relationship with a brand new me. He even wants/i want to change my hair just so it's easier for him to see me in a different light.
Anyway i just really needs a guy opinion. How is he feeling? Is this normal for him to have two emotions because he just mad at me and he really just needs time to get over it?