I'm in my 40's, divorced now and dating again for the first time since I met my wife when I was 24. I appreciate this site, and good advice is timeless, but I feel like most of the people asking and giving advice here are in their 20's. Is this perception wrong, how many 30+ (40+) people are regulars here? I know that it's often uncool to solicit or post links to other sites (especially "competitors") but if it's possible to be pointed in the right direction, I thank you.