Hey, I've been with my man for 18 months of so and thing are great generally. I told him I loved him after a year and he didn't say it back. At first I was fine with it, but if I don't say it when we end a call he asks me why (usualy I'm at work and can't talk at the time) but he basically refuses to say it back but expects me to now say it every day. He refuses to discuss it or anything. Am I wasting my time? I really do love him and care a lot for him hut it just feels so one sided and I feel like I'm not worth his time as he blows hot and cold.

Help!