plz hellp me i realy suffer alot

[nanousa]

ey first I’m 20 year old girl; very sensitive so romantic crazy in love I live nearby Madrid student in college my love story started 11 month ago. When my first met a boy on the internet I mean in ‘chat rooms’ he is 24 year old, so wonderful kind and cute from Lebanon . he is my truly love .Anyway as I said I met him in chat room first the chat was so normal I mean surface conversation and then we started to know each other close and closer ,deep and deeper all that just in chat . I knew all things about him and also he did. But the Important thing is that we started to love each other day by day hour by hour second by second till he became my life my breath my soul also the same thing to him . Really u can‘t imagine how we loved each other to a way I can’t describe. The problem is my truly love is from Lebanon even he is there and all this story has built up on chat rooms “ of course we see each other just through webcams and pictures’’ and we talked every day even when I went to college out from my town (5 days away from home ) he calls me everyday . We decided to get married after he comes to my town to see me and my family and get engaged. we planned he will come this summer, but the grief and what broke my heart is that yesterday at night he called me and told me that he talked with his parent about me, that he will come to Madrid and he will marry me and bring me to Lebanon and live there with him .But the disaster is that his parent refused and argued with him and he was telling me this and he is crying and sobbing very loudly in a way I have never seen in my life. And I was too crying. Moreover, we spent the whole night crying .It was really a very big shock to me and then he suggested that I should leave my home and my family and travelled to Lebanon and study there and then we get married and this solution is too hard to me. it is so impossible, no way I can’t at all, then he said we should end this relation cuz it will never be successful. Then he said to me forget my email my number and my face all thing about me. But I really can’t When he said that I really thought about suicide cuz life without him has no meaning. I can‘t forget him he means every thing to me he is my breath that am leaving for but after this long night with crying and arguing he called me in the early morning crying oh saying my love I can’t forget u too or live without u we started to cry and sobbing again cuz we know that it is hard to meet if the thing still like that(the miss that is going on now in Lebanon and the problems that face his country , his parent disagreement ). Now
Please I want u to help me please by anything what should I do? I must forget him but how? U should know that I can’t leave my home and go to him also he does o what can I do? If I want to forget him. Or maybe he no longer loving me and if he was like that why he cried and called me back telling me that he can’t live with out me. so Please provide me with anything advises, suggestion .Or shall I continue this relation with him. I really don’t know what to do. cuz he is really suffering like me. Lastly I wish I could read ur answers sooooooon
The broken heart
niss

[Raverboy]

I would assist you with your problem but when you post it into 2 different sections and never paragraph, I think I won't!

Ta ta!

[suspence]

wut a jerk

[Raverboy]

wut a jerk

I think you meant:

"What a jerk."

Please, if you want to insult me at least do it properly.

Ta ta!

[nanousa]

hey boy well i meant to post my problem in two diffrent forums in order to get more answer to help me to pass my crisis .but what i recieved nothing just ur answer which is so negative u don't even feel what i facing and u even care about others, that why u wrote that (sorry to say) foolish answer refrech ur tenns boy and stop missing with others

[jolovessim]

nanousa, i know its hard to accept but i dont think you should carry on with your 'relationship', its not going to work. you cant expect him to move in with you and leave his family and friends and whole life, if your not prepared to do that for him. try dating some guys in your area, nothing serious..just so you know hes not the only man for you, even if it feels like it at the moment. A broken heart continues to beat, and time WILL help.

[Glenn]

I find it very hard to picture what you are trying to say. I simply can't imagine a love built out of chats, pic and phone calls. And it seems to me you are thinking of marriage way too early. I mean you haven't even met the guy in person. Where as i can completely understand his parents frustrations. I think you should clearly think about ending this relationship, there is no way you could move to lebanon because of his parents objections. If you do so, what about your parents ? You should discuss with them too. Don't make the biggest mistake of your life then start running back to them. Never take your parents for granted. My advice to you is give yourself more time. Take a step back. Think carefully, maybe meet him up go out on a couplemore dates.(dun think of marriage) and see is this really what you want. Good luck

[mhussain]

nanousa,
where r u from?

Hussain

[dizza]

u must be crazy