Pleasuring Your Partner

[leewcopp]

Pleasuring your partner is a crucial part to any successful relationship, without a healthy active sex life, it could cause serious issues within your relationship.

Here are some ways to pleasure your partners, so you can spice up your relationship.

Tips for pleasuring a women:

All women are different: If your slick moves from your previous girlfriend had her screaming out loud and making you a so called porn star, good for you. But don’t expect that the next girlfriend you have will like the same techniques, every women is different and everyone’s bodies/needs vary. A women’s body is like an old car in icy cold weather: You need to slower warm her up, there not like us guys who can go from zero to sixty at the click of a finger, giving her plenty of foreplay will help you greatly. Her head will be all over the place, with thoughts about work, kids or what she has to do tomorrow. So make her notice how her body feels when you start arousing different erogenous zones, like the lips, the ears, the breasts, the inner thigh, the belly button, even the toes, this will help them remember that you can offer pleasure to her body that she might not have had for a long time.

Earn her trust: Women see sex and love as two different things, though they are a few of women who don’t mind getting it on straight away, but for the most, they see sex as an expression of love. If you don’t nurture her, shes not going to get hot and bothered when its time you want to hit the sheets.

Know a woman’s anatomy: Familiarize yourself with woman’s body, know the best places to pleasure, so when it comes to the time, your a master at her own body.

Pull out the Kama Sutra: No need to focus all your energy on making her orgasm during intercourse, but why not try? Check out some books or videos about sexual positions and have fun experimenting, she’ll love it, and you never know what might hit the spot for your lover, being creative is healthy for a relationship.

Most women love oral sex: To a women, it doesn’t get much better than this. Soft, wet tongue meets delicate pink pearl, they love it even more if they think you do to. Best thing to do is start gently, explore the inner thighs, the labia, the opening to the vagina. And when her body language indicates shes ready for it, lick, suck, and swirl her clitoris in circles, mix it up and down motions, while using your hands to explore the rest of her.

Tips for pleasuring a man:

Find your man’s hidden zones: Yes its true, men love to be touched sensually too, and like many of the zones are obvious, like the lips, groin, and inner thighs, there are also ares when stroked, caressed and kissed, will drive your man crazy and can even intensify his orgasm. Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms, chest and scalp are all sensitive area that most men love to be stimulated, so spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and see what happens.

Give him a hand job: When beginning a genital massage, start with light, irregular strokes, so your teasing him. The further you get into it, try to stick to two or three main strokes that your partner really enjoys. All men love hand jobs,and I guess most men don’t get them enough of there partners, developing a good rhythm that your partner can enjoy will be the key to bringing him to an orgasm.

More oral sex: One very vital advice I’m giving you to make your love making perfect is: learn the art of fellatio, its true all men love it, it feels great and actually takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there. The problem with most women is that they often start fellatio by sucking on the penis straight away, when actually men love to be playfully teased with soft touches etc. This will also lead to him having much more powerful orgasm as it heightens his anticipation, just make sure you use different techniques and your tongue.

His enjoyment position: Every animal species utilizes the doggy style position, so it is a natural one for humans to enjoy as well. While you wont have face to face contact, there are benefit, and guys love it as it gives them full control. It is one of the best positions for hitting the G-spot, while he can also fondle your breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck an other sensual spots. Plus the main benefit for men is that he’ll be able to get incredibly deep penetration from this position. so let him enjoy this position when he can.

Wear lingerie: It sounds simple, but it is very effective, all men love women in lingerie and when he see you in it, he’s going to want you so much more, plus it will make you feel good, knowing you’ve turn him on already. Maybe give him a bit of a lap dance to tease him.

Sound sexy or talk dirty: An active imagination can do wonders for your sex life, trust me guys love a woman who can talk so dirty that they get an erection just listening to what she has to say. Same thing in bed during sex, when you moan or breath heavily, its contagious, it’ll turn us on even more, and its your involuntary way of showing appreciation. Also if a man thinks you are enjoying sex with him, he’ll start to enjoy sex a lot too. For guys, ego plays a big role in sex, and if he hears that he’s good in bed, he’d want to have more sex with you, just to feel good.

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[Cerby]

Nice post, wrong forum.

[jetta86s]

Very well said! A lot of people out there would really find your article worthwhile.

Cerby why you say so?

[Boisdevie]

Tips for pleasuring your female partner number 8:
When you are out together and she is shopping for clothes whatever you do don't act as though you are bored out of your mind even though you are. Instead try to keep your mind occupied by visualising all those nice young ladies getting undressed in the changing rooms.