I mainly joined this site because I wanted some advice and opinions from people I don't know and a place where I can come and talk about my situation and not have it be tied back to who I really am and nobody I know finding out..hopefully.
I've been with my bf for 4 and a half years now. 5 years in December. We really do love each other and like every couple we have our ups and downs and we fight. That's typical though right? At the end of the day we still love each other and we're still happy with each other. Here's the problem though. Almost 9 years ago I met a guy online and we talked and talked and talked. To this day we still text each other. My bf however does not know that and wouldn't be happy if he knew. I've never met this guy, just talked to him online and through texts and we've also skyped. I feel like I've loved him for years now and he says he loves me as well. I fell in love with this guy obviously before meeting my bf and then fell in love with my bf when we first started dating. I love both guys. This other guy knows I have a bf, too. The other guy really wants to meet me. He's been wanting to meet me for years. I wanna meet this guy and see how things go. If I love him I feel like I owe it to myself to at least meet him and see how things go. I owe it to my bf to not cheat though and I wouldn't. Well I wouldn't sexually cheat on him. I could never tell my bf I was meeting up with someone to hang out. It would have to be behind his back. I really don't know what to do. This guy is willing to come and meet me if I'm ready to meet him as well and I think I am. Do you all think I should at least take a chance on meeting this guy to see how things go? If I don't I will forever wonder what could have been.