Need to know what is going through a guys mind when...

[Dvan]

Ok, I have been dating this guy for a month. Things were absolutely amazing, he is amazing and he felt the same way about me. We spent a lot of time together, but still did or own things too. Friday night was amazing, he slept over and the next morning I accidentally did something that reminded him of his ex girlfriend (who he hated). Ever since then he has been very weird. Saturday, he asked to spend the day alone and didnt hardly text me all day which is unusual for him.. I just figured he wanted his space. Today he tells me he wants to spend less time together. Actually set up dates rather than just assuming we are going to hang out. While having this conversation he was holding my hand, stroking my leg, massaging my feet and looking me in the eye. When he had to leave he gave me a kiss goodbye and then texted me when he got to work saying thanks for the great communication. After a little bit of conversation he asked to set up a date. We set the day but not the time...

I would also like to point out that how quickly the relationship progressed was all his doing, which he owned up to. We ended the conversation with him saying he just wanted more "me" time.

What is going through his head, does he still want to be with me or is he really just needing more "me" time?

[haxan]

When people say they want more 'me' time, it actually translates into they want 'less of you' time. Sorry.

[toknow]

While having this conversation he was holding my hand, stroking my leg, massaging my feet and looking me in the eye

All at the same time?

[toknow]

Did you have to call his secretary to make an appointment?

But, seriously what in the world!!! What kind of relationship is this?

What was it that you did, that was the same as his ex? That matters.
He probably had a flashback which stirred suppressed feelings about his ex. And if so, he isn't over her.