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    I am deeply in love with a girl thatalready has a boyfriend

    PLEASE READ MY ENTIRE STORY I ask is
    for your advice. No one seems to be
    helping me out in other sites.
    Ever since freshmen year I have been in
    love with this girl who has been the
    manager for the sport I am currently
    playing (there is a reason for not saying
    the sport).
    Sadly, she no longer manages the team
    and has probably forgot who I am since
    she has not been in any of my classes and
    I rarely see her during passing periods
    and lunch. When I do see her my stomach
    drops, my heart races, and I feel like
    electricity is running through my entire
    body. The only for sure time I would see
    her is during her practice after school as
    I play my other sport (her sport is
    different than the one just mention and
    the one above). Every time I see her and
    her boyfriend together, it kills me and I
    know she really deserves a better loving
    man than him. On the bright side,
    hopefully she will be in some of my
    classes in next year and will get to know
    me again. If she does end up in my class,
    what if the seating rows are in
    alphabetical order, how will I end up
    getting to know her and how would she
    get to notice my many talents?
    One of my friends however, has known
    her since elementary and says she is a
    kind, smart athletic and funny person (he
    does not like her, he already told me he
    likes someone else for sure).
    It is now summer break (6 weeks) and
    every day I have been conditioning and
    working out 2-3 hours every day while
    thinking of her every second. I am also
    planning to get a job in the next week
    because I know if she miraculously dumps
    her boyfriend and falls for me, I would
    have to invest a lot of time and money on
    her.
    Is it wise to try to become her friend first
    for her to get to know me? Also what are
    the odds that she and her boyfriend will
    be together when he graduates?(he is
    going to be a senior while she is going to
    be a junior like me)

    The thing is, I know that many other girls
    like me but they are not the ones I am
    interested in. The one I am in love with, is
    different than all the other girls I have
    liked in the past. I have not liked anyone
    for this long. I Truly love her and will do
    anything it will take just to get to know
    her and to win her heart.

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    I suspect people on the other site are not telling you what you want to hear so I'm not even sure if this is even worth my time.


    Now if you have any balls you will start to hit on her and flirt with her. You want a girl's attention? you have to be confident, cocky and ballsy period......being friends is sucky, and most of the time takes way too long to get any kind of results and usually the result are not good. Girls don't want a sensitive "I want to be your friend" guy. So work on getting yourself a little bit of a bad boy persona and get to it.

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