Is this to keep me around, Or is he really busy with work? Your thoughts please! :)

[Mz.CoCo]

I met this guy and the first time i met him, he immediately told me i was beautiful and asked me if i was seeking a long term relationship. I replied "yes but not with anyone" and he said that he could respect that. He asked for my number but i told him no (even though he was attractive) and told him to have a nice day. I see him a week later and he asks me "what do i have to do to make you my lady"? it was a cute gesture so this time i gave him my number and we text back and forth for awhile. It got to the point where he was telling me that he wanted me in his life and he tells me all the time how i am so beautiful, he loves my long hair and that he see his self being with me.....NOW HERE COMES THE HAULTING STOP.....he told me he had 2 kids both age 6 years, come to find out he lied....he has a 6 year old boy and a "3 week" old girl.....hmmmmm crazy huh? i was upset that he lied about something like that but i got over it but NOW.. i can BARELY get any ALONE time with him even on his off days!!!! Im starting to think he may still be messing around with his child's mother(s) or he may not have time for me. He say that its going to get better but it remains to be seen! smh, and when i call or text him that i cant do this.....HE CALLS ME!!! and tell me "no, its going to get better, dont leave".....what should a girl do in this situation?

[smackie9]

Follow your gut feeling......walk away and never talk to him again.

[haxan]

He seems desperate the way he's pursuing you, and with the complications he has in his personal life. Find someone carefree like yourself.

[cheekxs]

Whahahahahhahhaha, dont you get it ????

This pig is a married men with 2 kids. aND HE IS TRYING TO GET A whore to cheat with.

And you sounds very naive, and like no one ever told you , that you are beautiful!
Thats cheap flirting!


No one lie about their kids!
And whaTEVER age the kids are, he is for shore drama drama and more drama.
Cause many people with kids doesnt have aorganized life.
They still have baby mama drama or mess around with her!

Run like Forest Gumb! Safe yourself!
If he can lie about kids( his own blood)
he can lie about whatever!

And how did you find out that his kids are 6 and 3 weeks?

[cheekxs]

I think cause he is cheating, he cant get the place and time to do it freely!

So he ask you to wait till he have that space!

[oldskool83]

he just wants to hump you. let him go the situation is now shady.

[vashti]

OMG, I don't know how you ever thought it was a good idea to date a man with a 3 week old new baby! Don't you have a mother or friends who told you this was about the dumbest thing you could ever do?

He is gonna be a ton of trouble. Get your head on straight, and give him the boot.