gentlemen, i need your input please!

[miawallace27]

So a little over a month ago, I bet a guy while out of town. We had a great night together and ended up having sex. I made it seem like it was a one night thing, but he came back the next day and we had sex again. When I got back to town he persued me heavely. Texting me all the time and telling me he thinks I'm great. a week later we met up in a near by city and had an amazing weekend as well. Now I'm used to getting my heart broken, so I had a huge guard up and was acting like it was just sex. He kept saying that you can't do that with love, and that you have to give it your all, and all these other sweet things. When we went home we continued to talk almost everyday, and he would always say he wished I was there with him. Finally I caved and told him I had feelings for him, and he didn't even freak out. We continued the same way. Then one weekend he was going back to the city we spent the weekend in, but said it was a boys trip. He sent me a pic of the hotel we stayed at to be cute, but then he went MIA for a couple days so I texted him. I told him id be visiting his home town, but he sad he wouldn't be in town. I acted non chalant about it. But then he changed his mind and stayed. i was busy with family that weekend so I only got to see him one night. The whole weekend he texted me. Then we spoke on the phone and he said all those things about love, and how he acts like that until he gets hurt. He also kept saying that all I want from him is sex. How I have this guard up against him. So we had a great night together again, but this one seemed very deep, with a stronger connection. But when I got back, nothing, silence! He just disappeared. what on earth happened?? Help me please

[smackie9]

He has a GF.

[oldskool83]

all he wants from you is sex and hes making your feel guilty....stupid girl, close your legs.

[cheekxs]

I think you got punked.

And remember , if you open your legs that early with a guy, he never will have something serious with you!

Cause he will think you are a easy girl so he dont have to do effort for anything.

How old are you? You are going to learn a lesson the hard way. But if you really learn it you will not get into this that soon again!

He wanted sex, like many guys. and he did what he tough you will like to hear and it worked.
A men sex with you is noting special!
Special is if he wants to wait and get to know you and then marry you for the right reasons.
And after that sex.

Men sex with whores everyday!Also when they dont know them!
So ................:S

[redforlife204]

yeah im sure he liked the sex but i know from experience any girls ive felt could be keepers were the ones that wouldnt hav sex have sex with me first or second night, because then i felt she wasnt easy and the chances of her getting drunk one night and easily been sweet talked by some dude into getting into bed with them and me never finding out, were much less than that of other girls iv been with who held nothing back on first night, hope that helps, try contact him though sounded like a good click!!

[VencenzoI]

Not to be crude... but currently sounds like he's not into you! Except for the sex, maybe he's actually involved with someone who isn't as fun as you are. My advice, kick him like a bad habit and wait for the right guy to come along that will value more then just good sexual partner... that's what I would do! By the way how's the weather out in the Bay Area, I escaped two-years ago! I only miss the comfortable weather, I hate the humidity of the south, especially today. (it's close to 95 degrees and 100% humidity)

[haxan]

You played games and lost. It's why I tell people don't waste your time playing games. Be yourself, be open, be honest. If it doesn't work out, you have nothing to feel bad about, you gave it your all.