Girlfriend talking about ex boyfriends...

[thundersw]

I just started a relationship with this girl about a week and half, she's older than me.
Before she met me she had a 5 years relationship with a guy and they lived together, then they broke up, she says it was perfect they just had a financial dispute. After that she met another guy who she was with 6 months who treated her badly and they broke up about 3 months ago.
Now we are together, she accepted to be me with me, she says she likes me, calls me a lot, we had sex many times. Thing is, I don't mind her talking about past boyfriends, but she brings it often, even if I'm talking with someone else.
Is she just hurt? Or does she has some lasting feelings for any of them? At first I didn't mind, but it's starting to bother me a bit. I'm starting to feel secondary to her or even worst, a rebound.
I really enjoy her company and her personality, she's very sweet and I like her.
What you girls think about this? Could it be a problem or it's just temporary? How can I as a man do better in a relationship if she says someone before was perfect? Leaves me somewhat confused, I try not to intice her to talk about this and sometimes I swap the topic of the conversation.
I know our relationship is recent, but I'm just trying to get another opinion from girls who have been through the same or similar. Thank you.

[Maple1714]

Hmmm...hard to tell. What type of things does she keep bringing up about the ex's? Just random stuff? Need more details. Does she still see or talk to any of these ex's?

[thundersw]

She still talks on the phone or ride a bike together with the first one but not very often I believe she cutting off slowly, it's ok for me as long as I don't sense any further feeling rather than friendship. I still have to meet him personally though.
With the second one she cut off contact completely (this one I know him it's a college friend of mine), but still talks much about him, how he hurt her, how he ignored her, how he kept her from meeting is friends, how their relationship was not normal...
Any thoughs?

[cheekxs]

Wawwwww, a week and half, and you already having sex. doo you guys know each others name at least?

and i think that like many stupid people she may have start something with you without taking enough time to get over her past relationship.

or she feel like you treat her wrong and she keep telling you that.
or she keep compare you to them.

whatever it is you need to talk about it to see what the reason is and tell her straight up that you dont like it and how it makes you feel.

[cheekxs]

huh ...... just saw you other comment. dude you are stupid.
she have free card to cheat on you, thanx to your naivety

[surfhb]

Cheeks loves skat porn so don't take what this skank has to say with any amount of seriousness.

[vashti]

I think you should be very careful about investing yourself emotionally with this girl. She is obviously not "over" her ex. You are probably the rebound guy, which means it won't likely last. (Sorry to sound so pessimistic.)

[haxan]

You're the rebound guy. Enjoy the sex before you inevitably get dumped.