My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years and 4 months. About a month before we got together I had just gotten out of a 3 1/2 year relationship and she had just gotten out of a 2 year relationship. Personally I think it started as a rebound for both of us, due to the fact we were both sexual people and needed certain needs satisfied. Soon afterwards I found myself getting more and more attached and developing some serious feelings for her. I met her family and was immediately accepted, I mean for example, this past Christmas I went on a family vacation with them. But for the past eight months or so there has been a serious strain on our relationship. We have both been under tremendous stress lately and I understand that can have some effect but our sex life has gone down the drain, there is no intimacy between us, and I feel like she doesn't even want to touch me.
Now I am also currently unemployed (although I am trying very hard to find work), but she makes sure that I get what I need (clothes, shampoo, etc...). She also gets me things I don't need, but its always material things. I can't remember the last time we had a real kiss, or just laid down and held each other. That's all for now, my thoughts have become too disorganized to write anymore.