me and my boyfriend dated for 2 months and 2 weeks ago he broke up with me because he's leaving for boot camp in january. he's going to be gone for 6 months and he told me he doesn't wanna fall harder for me and then have to leave, it's just gonna make things a lot worse for us. i was so hurt, and he has been contacting me every single day since we've broken up. he told me he misses me, wants to bring me lunch, and the other day on the phone he told me he's an idiot because he can't stop thinking about me and he still has feelings for me but the situation sucks and he sees the relationship as pointless since he's leaving. i don't know what to do, i wanna be with him and we agreed to talk in person this week about things and figure something out. i was in md for the weekend so the other night he said "i miss you so much we need to figure something out when you get back." i wanna be with him but i'm not sure what he wants. today he called me after my class and i asked him if he was free this week to talk and he said "yeah i told you i'd let you know when we'll talk please don't rush things you know" and i said "i'm not rushing anything, things have honestly been so confusing for me, we talk every single day and it gives me false hope" and he said "if us talking everyday and being friends is giving you false hope..then i won't waste your time or do that to you cause that's wrong" and i said "it is wrong especially when you tell me you miss me and you still have feelings for me but don't want to be with me? it's hurtful..i can't just shut off my feelings and be friends right away" and he said "then i'll leave you alone..yes i have feelings for you but i don't know what i want..so instead of wasting your time, i'll leave you alone" and i said "i hope you understand where i'm coming from. i just feel like you're hanging onto me cause you don't know what you want but i know what i want. i haven't stopped thinking about you and i miss you so much but it makes me feel like you tell me all these things but i'm not good enough to be with..and i'm sitting here hoping you'll change your mind and we could take things slowly and work things out but i don't think you wanna give it another chance" and he said "did i say that? no..but i do wanna work it out..but i don't like being labeled and that sorta thing..but you assume that i want nothing to do with you..so you blow it out of proportion...just let it be and if you can't handle talking everyday then we won't it's simple." now we spoke on the phone and he's nervous about a long distance relationship and i said "who said we would continue things when you leave?" and he said "if things are going really well and nothing's wrong then why would we end things?" and i said "because you're leaving" and he said "i wouldn't do that" and later on he apologized for being a baby about this relationship but he's nervous and he told me he's scared of falling in love and getting hurt again, because he's been really hurt in his past. and i understand that and he told me maybe we could try the relationship again but just ease into it slowly. i told him everybody's been hurt, and in the end we both would be hurt and i told him i would never hurt him, and he said "what sucks is i've heard that before..a few times..i'm the problem trust me, i wouldn't lead you on i just need time"

does he have feelings for me and could he really be nervous about the future? or do you think this is bs? please explain your answer.