How serious is this guy about me?

[Rana123]

I am divorced, 35, one daughter. He is separated, 3 kids. We live an hour plane ride from each other. He is a famous poet, and I am a poet too. He talks to me via messages 4-5 times a day everyday and calls me at night whenever our schedules meet. He seems to be serious about me, but his circumstances are rather complex because he still lives with his (separated) wife. I don't know how this is possible, but I do believe him. We live in the Middle East, though his nationality is a Canadian (Arab). He hates his situation, but I did not prod him for more explanations. I am just letting things take their time and he will open up more with time, though I did ask him for the full story recently. I have been talking to him for over a month now, and we have been on facebook (with not much communciation) for two years, though I added him as a public figure, so I knew who he was to begin with, so to speak.

He is...my dream man, seriously.

I got divorced not too long ago, so I am sort of not going to make a big move in my life any time soon. I wish to be his lover, and hope in the future we'd be together, finally.

What do you guys think?

[Boisdevie]

Still lives with separated wife. Why? That's one big issue right there and then.

[kbhill]

Honestly, By definition, He isn't separated at all. They are still living together should be a huge red flag.

[vashti]

Agree with kbhill. He isn't separated. He's engaging in an inappropriate relationship while married. Until he is divorced and living separately from his wife, YOU are the intruder.