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    Need some advice

    Okay so this is my story...

    About one and a half month ago I contacted a girl from my youth. And we started to SMS quite a lot. Almost every day during the evening.. And after two weeks we went on our first date. Coffee at her house, and it went great.. This girl is amazing and we seem to be able to talk about anything and everything..And she told me that she wanted to meet again

    Two weeks ago we talked about getting together once more but that weekend we both were feeling blue o we didn't but she said that it was her birthday next weekend and it would be nice to have some company then..

    So I took that as a great sign, she wanting to spend her birthday with me.. So I started to plan this amazing night but then on Thursday she sent me a SMS asking if we could move our date to next weekend instead because she had to work and didn't want to feel stressed and hurry home..

    I said it was fine but I was disappointed obviously so I decided to test if she would initiate contact because it's usually me who does at. So I didn't send her any SMS for a couple of days and two days after she sent me a SMS asking how my day had been..

    I have always believed that if you are interested in someone you make time to meet that someone..

    Should I take her moving our date to next weekend as something?

    I feel that this, what ever it is could become something amazing but a bit worried that it won't because of how slowly it's moving forward..

    Any thoughts or insights would be greatly appreciated

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    I think you're worrying too soon. She immediately asked for another time/date so it's not like she just made an excuse (at this point anyway.) If she calls close to the next scheduled time and flakes again, then I'd be taking that as a good indicator that you're wasting your time with her, that she's a flake and she just doesnt know how to bow out gracefully so she strings you along hoping you'll take the hint and leave her alone.

    So: How about you wait until the scheduled time and then make your decision on what you think she's actually up to.

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