I have been dating a guy for 1 year and 9 months now. I love him more than words can describe and am fully committed to him. We have known each other for about 6 years and were friends prior to dating. We joke about starting dating because it “just happened.” I am 28 years old and have been divorced for over 5 years. I married my 1st husband when I was way too young and naive to know what LOVE was. My boyfriend has never been married; in fact he says he has never “been in love” despite having a few previous serious relationships. We have the same life values, morals, and beliefs. However, we have a different view about love and making a further commitment. I know that I am in love with him and tell him that I do. He, on the other hand, says he is not in love, but has strong feelings for me. He says he “wants to fall in love one time in his life” and until he knows for certain I (or any woman) am the one he wants to marry he will not say “I love you.” We do not live together. We do both have a key to the other person’s house. I have discussed with him wanting to further our relationship by moving in together and attempting to have more of a commitment. Every time we talk about it, he shuts the idea down and it turns into a fight. He wants me to be more patient with him and his unconventional view on love/relationships. I want him to start progressing forward more and showing me more of a commitment. I am curious how long I should wait until I throw my hands up and be done or give him an ultimatum (neither one of those options is something I want, but I am almost at my wits end due to frustration.) Please give me your thoughts, views, and opinions about my situation! THANKS!!!!