So this girl found me on fb and added me as a friend, we started talking on chat and she asked me out for a date - I said yes. It went well, we talked, had a few laughs but nothing happened - we didn't kiss. Ok, no biggie, it was our 1st date.
On 2nd, I tried to kiss her and she just gave me a quick flash kiss on the lips (no tongue) and asked me to take things slow - she wants to get to know me first before she jumps into a relationship. Ok, I can respect that.
3rd, 4th, 5th date went like the first one... It was nothing more then a hanging out with a friend. After 3rd date I talked to her on chat about all this and she says that she likes me and wants to be with me but that we still need to get to know each other better before anything happens.
We see each other once a week, it has been our 7th date, I think, last Monday - so that makes it two months that we know each other. She hugs me when we walk, cuddle with me... but still no kiss.
I talked to my friend about it, and it turns out, a few months ago this girl asked him out for a date - same as me over fb. He never went out with her, because he has a girlfriend, but know I got paranoid... What if she's dating someone else also and the reason she doesn't want to kiss me is that she's in dilema with who she wants to be with? I see her flirt around on the fb with other guys - that's normal but still ads flame to my paranoia, and it really bugs me.
Last Monday, I tried to kiss her, even thou I knew she probably would not allow it, which she didn't... So, I asked her once again what is going on, how long do we have to wait, is there someone else...? This time she said to me that a certain unexpected development has occurred - she has an opportunity to finish her collage in Europe and if she gets in she will be leaving in a month. She says that she wants a real relationship with me and if that is not possible she doesn't want anything.
What am I suppose to do? She really grew on me over these two months, I like her vary much, but I'm not sure I trust everything she's telling me.
On the other side if she's being honest with me, do I keep dating her and hoping she doesn't get accepted in school in Europe. And if I break things up now, and then she stays, I'll be kicking myself for not waiting.
I don't know what to do with this girl, please help?
P.S. I'm 25, she's 23. And sorry for my English it's not my mother language.