girlfriend's boobs to small,she is not attractive enough

[andrei_balon]

hello,first post on this forum,hope someone will help me out with some advice.

My girlfriend looks like a model,she is slim and very attractive.The one thing that she doesn't have are boobs.She has the smallest breasts of any girlfriend I ever had.In rest of that she is flawless...perfect skin,ass of a goddess,perfect seductive eyes and a smile that can light up the room.And that's just looks...her personality is a perfect match,she is very smart and has a bright future.Her social status and family are very nice and really...i don't have anything to complain above.

There is something though...her breasts.I find that the most erotic of a woman,yet she almost doesn't have any.And my brain and testosterone are hijacking me. I find myself looking at other women and fantasizing about them(more than i should or what i usually did)

I love her,she loves me...our relationship is perfect and i don't want these urges to ruin it. I want to accept her,to be fulfilled because she is all I really want.Yet I lust other women just because they a bigger body part...i would feel like shit if somebody felt the same towards me...

I don't want to be shallow,i never was...yet i am kinda just that.

how do i get over this?I am ready to try anything...

thank you for reading.

[VincenzoG91]

Maybe you get your own boobs. Buy a pair of silicon breast implants and you can get them out and fondle them whenever you like.

[Maple1714]

Buy her some boobs...you can get a nice pair in the U.S. with the new "tear drop" shape for about $10,000. Has she ever acknowledged that she has no boobs? She must know. Find some way to bring it up with out offending her....not sure how to do that but worth a try?

[andrei_balon]

Maybe you get your own boobs. Buy a pair of silicon breast implants and you can get them out and fondle them whenever you like.

If i where an asshole or a jerk I wouldn't care and just dump her.But I do love her,that's why i'm writing on these "love forums". I do not understand why you wrote,maybe to increase your post count...please write something intelligent and sensible next time,or don't write anything at all

[andrei_balon]

Buy her some boobs...you can get a nice pair in the U.S. with the new "tear drop" shape for about $10,000. Has she ever acknowledged that she has no boobs? She must know. Find some way to bring it up with out offending her....not sure how to do that but worth a try?

thanks for the advice.She acknowledged that she lacks in that department but I do not want to change her honestly.She will never(at least with the technology available now) have big beautiful breasts.And she said she will never do implants. I'm sort of looking with something that can help me rather than her.I did this before with other girls...i fixate on something I don't like and then in the end it controls me.It might be porn or who knows what other issue,but i really want to deal with this. I lost attraction to many women before and I thought it was natural...or that we where not right for each other.But this one is different,she is really all i need...well almost

[Maple1714]

thanks for the advice.She acknowledged that she lacks in that department but I do not want to change her honestly.She will never(at least with the technology available now) have big beautiful breasts.And she said she will never do implants. I'm sort of looking with something that can help me rather than her.I did this before with other girls...i fixate on something I don't like and then in the end it controls me.It might be porn or who knows what other issue,but i really want to deal with this. I lost attraction to many women before and I thought it was natural...or that we where not right for each other.But this one is different,she is really all i need...well almost

Hmm...well with technology today she can most certainly have whatever size boobs she wants. You can actually now get fat from other parts of your body liposuction-ed out and injected into your boobs...my boss did this and they looked perfect! I am thinking about this for myself...

Anyway, I am not sure how you are going to deal with this issue. No one is going to be perfect. You need to somehow look past the physical. Boobs aren't everything. You should just fantasize about her having huge ones while you are having sex...and maybe after a while it will be really easy to visualize and you can trick yourself into thinking she has bigger ones? Porn is always a good option as well.

[searock]

I did this before with other girls...i fixate on something I don't like and then in the end it controls me.It might be porn or who knows what other issue,but i really want to deal with this.

I agree, you should deal with this. I think a professional could help reach the root of the problem. You need to understand the cause of these fixations. You suggest it might be because you watch porn, why do you think so? Do you have a porn addiction?

[dickriculous]

Sounds to me like you are a perfectionist. This girl sounds like an amazing catch and you're obsessed with her one flaw. Do you understand that if you broke up with her chances are you'd go through 10 more women and not one would have all the things going for her that you mentioned when talking about this girl? I don't think you realize what you have and I don't think you will until it's gone.

If you suspect it's the porn then stop watching it. I mean, that just makes sense doesn't it? I'm mortally allergic to bananas so the solution to the problem I have of eating bananas = possible death for me is to not eat them. Problem solved.

Btw you know those porn stars have fake boobs and bleached assholes right? They are altered to please the viewer and professionals at posing and goiing into sex positions that are the most flattering for their figure...there's a LOT of smoke and mirrors that go into making porn. It's mostly a sexually gratifying illusion. Nothing "wrong" with that per se, but it's a point worth bringing up because a lot of people convince themselves it's real sex and subconsciously they take on the mentality that this is what real sex is supposed to be...and that can just ruin real sex for them.

[sadie_genie]

There is more to attraction than just what looks good on paper. Beauty is subjective. She might seem perfect in everything else but what you are truely attracted to is just not there. You might even find another women with large boobs (but perhaps who doesn't look like a model) to be more attractive. Also it would be unfair to her if you hold onto her just because she has all those other good qualities when genuine attraction isn't there. So, let her go find someone else who is attracted to her.

[surfhb]

If i where an asshole or a jerk I wouldn't care and just dump her.But I do love her,that's why i'm writing on these "love forums". I do not understand why you wrote,maybe to increase your post count...please write something intelligent and sensible next time,or don't write anything at all

I think you missed the point asswipe. Hes making fun of your immaturity in this situation. Boggles the mind that a pair of small tits in the only barrier in your relationship with this girl. Break up with this girl so she can find a real man. Post of the month buddy!! get help quick

[red-rasberry]

you obviously have an amazing girl here. Firstly do you realise how she feels?
You have obviously pointed out her lacking breast department and this may be something she is already very self consious about. You pointing it out is doing her no favors and if she is so perfect then why cant you see past the two lacking fat depositries.
Women are very delicate creatures, especially when it comes to looks. Try not to mention her breasts in a negative way. EVER. She is obviously beautiful, breasts shouldnt make a difference. Maybe you should think twice before commenting on such a thing. Noone is perfect and it seems youve got pretty damn close. Be thankful with what you have and appreciate her properly instead of looking for the next best thing.

[VincenzoG91]

Big boobs get saggy as the years go by. Eventually, a big-breasted woman is playing soccer with 'em when she doesn't have a bra on.

[vashti]

It sounds like she is accepting of her shape in a healthy way, and YOU are the one with problems. I applaud her confidence, and wish every woman who is willing to put foreign materials in her body in order to look like a ridiculous cartoon character had half as much.

You should seek some professional help.

And for the record, fake boobs feel awful, and I should know... I touch lots of them. Gross!

If you really can't get over yourself, maybe you should offer to have a penile implant done in exchange for her getting breast implants.

[MaidenMinx]

My signature says all I want to say...

[andrei_balon]

I think you missed the point asswipe. Hes making fun of your immaturity in this situation. Boggles the mind that a pair of small tits in the only barrier in your relationship with this girl. Break up with this girl so she can find a real man. Post of the month buddy!! get help quick

I think you missed the point that almost everybody else seem to get(asswipe).I do not want to feel and think this way.how hard is that to understand? Sex with her is amazing and every minute I spend with her is priceless.we have been trough a lot and I want to be there for her always. Did you ever have fleeing thought that you didn't agree with?My grandpa used to make jokes about sex,and sometimes it was very explicit.I didn't want to imagine it,but in my mind I saw him having sex.Of course it was gross,and of course I didn't want to think about it,but it happened.
I'm sure most people where so angry sometimes that they just wanted to kill someone.I felt this way many times when somebody really pissed me of yet I never really wanted to kill them,it was just a thought.