I am now friends with my ex girlfriend!...and i want her back!!!

**heartbreakkid6** · 03-10-12, 05:32 AM

Hii..i have been in an on and off relationship with my school friend who was my girlfriend..finally last month we broke up permanently as my gf got pissed of the fights and she said that we can never remain happy as a couple so it all ended..now i am friends with her and she made it clear that we can never be back in relationship even though our friendship blooms out well...now i still love her a lot and i want her back...i dunno how to get her back and what to do..i know many of u will say leave her but i truly love her and i wanna try to win her back..any suggestions how to progress from here?

**Cerby** · 03-10-12, 05:55 AM

Well, aside from rape I'm pretty sure you two will never be together again, she said so herself. So you have 2 options here:

1) Stay her friend and hopefully she sees you change (I chuckle as I type this)
2) Stop talking to her and find someone else.

**HeartIsAching** · 03-10-12, 06:31 AM

You could try the "Beauty and the Beast" approach:

Kidnap her, lock her in a room in your castle (or your basement/closet if you don't happen to have a castle), refuse her food and drink unless she eats with you, don't let her talk to any of her friends or family, and eventually she'll fall in love with you. This is also sometimes called "Stockholm Syndrome." *

*the preceding was a joke. I'm not really recommending that you commit crimes, nor that it would actually work.