Nearly had her...

[LaBrigade]

I'm devastated;
so I know this girl who was 'working' in my college, I dont want to give out too much info just in case...
she basically really liked me, I wanted to ask her out to go somewhere or something, or genuinely ask her out...
Then the half term came. This stupid, pointless 1 week off we had...I just didnt get it but hoped to see her after that..well, that's where I was like "damn, what have I done".
She just left the college..I didnt even get her number and crap etc etc.
Im devastated because I was literally on a verge to be able to ask her out, and yet, it's ****ed up again..

Now I know it's partly my fault but I didnt know she was leaving..the last day I've seen her was before that stupid week off..I just knew she liked me and I like her thats why all the confusion..I mean it's just stupid..if it wouldnt be for that last day, I would make my move..but I couldnt as well...but I aint getting into that.

Sorry if it sounds stupid but just had to get it all out there :/

Now I cant get in contact with her...I just cant stand what happened...

any suggestions? word of advice? or just talk would be much much appreciated...

[HeartIsAching]

Advice? Sure. In the future, take the lesson you've learned here and just ask. There' really no need to "work yourself up" to doing so - the worst she can do is say no, right? So ask. She might well say yes, but if she says no, you move on.

[LaBrigade]

I know right, but I never got to the right time...and where the right time was there..The life decided to be a cocksucker LOL

[Cerby]

HIA is right, learn lesson and move on. Everyone has their own lives and own timelines, if you don't act and the opportunity disappears you can only blame 1 person, and thats you. Life being a "cocksucker" had nothing to do with it.

[bob the brave]

We don't need to tell you what you may or may not have done right or wrong or give advice for future action. You know the answer to all of that better than any of us.

I am now 50 years of age. What I know without doubt is life is a gift. It is truly what you make it and it is short. So, if you really feel something for this girl, the answer is simple...find her.